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She sat in my chair with a vision.

Not a dream, not a “one-day-I’ll-get-there” fantasy – a plan.

A brand shoot coming up.

A new business on the horizon.

That kind of energy you can’t fake, the kind that makes you sit up a lil straighter just being in the room.

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She laughed as she told me,

“Girl, $10k months? That’s nothing. You should be aiming way higher.”

She gave me a look only another woman who’s been there can give you – like she wasn’t asking me to think bigger, she was telling me.

 We talked hair.

We talked hustle.

We even talked men – and she said it so effortless,

“You gotta choose better men.”

I believed her.

Because in that moment, she looked like somebody who had already crossed the line between “struggling” and “certain.”

And then..almost a year later

To read her name in a headline. 

If I wasn’t laying down, I probably would have fainted.

The Crown We See
VS.
The Crown We Can’t

This what they don’t tell you about being behind the chair: we see everything.

The raw breakups.

The fresh starts.

The quiet heartbreaks people could never say out loud.

But there’s the other side to that – we also see the masks.

Some clients come in heavy, you feel it.
Others come in and pour hope all over the cape.

Michelle?

She was the hope type.

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If you woulda been in that suite with us, you would have saw she was launching, not unraveling.

And that’s the part that I can’t get over.

Because her appointment didn’t feel like a “last meal” moment – it felt like a crowning.

When Hair Becomes Hope

People think we just “do hair.”

Nah.

When Michelle sat in my chair, it wasn’t about curls or edges or loc maintenance.

It was about getting ready to be seen again.

It was about stepping in front of that camera for her new business shoot and saying,

This is who I am now.

Hair isn’t just a look –  it’s a ritual.

Sometimes it’s the start of a new chapter.

Sometimes it’s the armor for a hard one.

And for Michelle, that day?

It felt like a start.

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 The Betrayal Beneath the Surface

Somewhere between the shampoo bowl and the dryer, she opened up.

She told me about her ex – the man who would end up in those headlines with her name.

How they had built a credit repair LLC together.

How they had just had a baby.

How she went on a trip – just a trip, just a moment to breathe – and came back to find her accounts wiped, and name taken off documents. There was even rumors he stole her veteran benefits.

Stay with me tho – she didn’t sound bitter AT ALL.

She didn’t sound broken.

She sounded..matter-of-fact.

Like she had already prayed on it, packed it up, and put it in a corner of her mind marked “handled.”

The Chair That Changed Everything

On July 11, 2025, Michelle walked into an Arlington salon suite.

The man she once built a life with – Todd Austin — was sitting in his barber’s chair.

She shot him.

When the police pulled up, she turned the gun on herself.

And that chair – that regular ole barbershop chair – became a crime scene.

If you work in beauty, you already know:

 

Our chairs aren’t just chairs.

They’re confessionals.

They’re therapy couches.

Sometimes they’re even altars.

 

I can’t stop thinking about the fact that his last moments were in that chair.

Because the same way women come to me for a new “crown” – for hope – men sit in that barber’s chair for the same thing.

Hair has always been more than hair.

Our spaces hold the best moments of people’s lives..and sometimes, the worst.

Stylists:
📌 Don’t assume silence means peace.
📌 Don’t dismiss the strong ones — check on them, too.

Clients:
📌 Booking a hair appointment can be an act of hope.
📌 But don’t make it your only safe space.

I’ll never forget the last thing she told me:

“$10k months are nothing.”

She believed in better.

She believed in building.

And I saw a woman ready to grow.

But here’s what her story left me with – you can look strong, be building, and still be breaking.

And that’s why I’ll never take the quiet moments in my chair for granted again.

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